5 Red Flags You're Dating A Habitual Liar - Never Settle
Dating a habitual liar leaves you questioning not just yourself but your sanity. They typically tell you that you are wrong, mistaken, perhaps even. I can't really bad-mouth many of my exes because aside from a couple of losers I dated, they were all great decostarica.info can't (and won't) always. Dating a habitual liar is the best thing ever. He or she will lie in their teeth about how wonderful you look and how you are the sexiest and most intelligent being.
Slowly, this will severely damage your self-confidence. They can also change their story multiple times, without seeming phased at all. The only problem is — you continually give them the benefit of the doubt, so you just end up really confused. If questioned, they become defensive and go off on one. Throwing random other points into the argument to confuse you even more, they make sure to leave you feeling guilty about calling them out, even if they lied.
In the end, you end up feeling bad that you called them a liar, so you learn to just deal with it. It is the way that they lie. Habitual liars use their lies to manipulate you, make you feel crazy, or to make you feel guilty for not trusting them.
For the compulsive liar, there is no moral compass guiding them. So, they just do what they do and never look back or consider who they hurt. Many liars are people who lack empathy and the ability to see how their lying ways affect the people around them.
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Since they lie purely for their own benefit whoever gets hurt is just collateral damage. There are just a few things you need to practice to get over all of this. If you're consistent, this will not only go away, but will actually enhance your skills with women! Here are the steps: Don't make this problem any bigger than it really is.
It probably seems huge right now, but it's not. You're going to get it solved once and for all, so don't give it any more worth in your mind than it's really due which is almost nothing 2 Start to believe that you're going to get over it.
See yourself in your mind as having complete confidence with women and being completely calm and relaxed while you're talking to them.
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That thing that used to happen is now a distant memory. Simply redirect it into being excited to actually score with this woman instead of feeling embarrassed. You'll need to practice this in your mind over and over again. Try to sit in a comfortable, quiet place and just walk through it in your mind. Imagine looking at the woman through your own eyes, talking with her, having her laugh at your jokes, etc.
Then, imagine that feeling of self-consciousness coming on. Really try to experience it just as you would when talking to a woman.
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Then, at the instant that you get the feeling, turn it around into powerful confidence! Imagine smiling at her slightly like you know you're going to score and even saying to her "Wow - it's so obvious that you're turned on by me!
Do this over and over again until it seems like second nature.
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You really need to practice this. For much more on reframing check out my book, "Being a Man in a Woman's World II" - it goes into this and many other concepts about power and confidence in great detail. Here's how this works: Never allow yourself to be without it in your pocket.
When you're talking to a woman or in fact, at any time you have these thoughtsexcuse yourself and hit the bathroom. Take that rubber band out of your pocket and for just an instant, relive the negative thought.
The instant you feel it, stretch the rubber band between your thumb and first finger, place this against your front thigh, pull it back and give yourself a painful pop with it! This is the punishment phase of the exercise.